Do you want to be successful? You can make your way to the top by doing this..
We all want to be successful. But what makes some of us achieve success even while still young, while others struggle their entire lives for nothing?
Is it a matter of intelligence? Does it have something to do with good luck? We think it’s more than that. The secret to being successful is in your habits.
And while there are hundreds of articles out there that tell you which habits you should have in order to be successful, we’re here to tell what you must absolutely refuse to do anymore if you want to be the greatest you’ve ever been.
1. Start by giving up toxic people.
Look around. Are there people who don’t support you with their whole being? Does your family support you? Is your partner encouraging you enough? Do they help you want to be successful?
Think about all the people surrounding you and ask yourself if they truly respect and admire you as much as you deserve. If not, keep looking for your tribe. They’re out there, I promise you!
“You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with.” ― Jim Rohn
People we spend the most time with, add up to who we become.
There are people who are less accomplished in their personal and professional life, and there are people who are more accomplished than us. If you spend time with those who are behind you, your average will go down, and with it, your success.
But if you spend time with people who are more accomplished than you, no matter how challenging that might be, you will become more successful.
2. Give Up the need to be Liked
Think of yourself as a market niche.
There will be a lot of people who like that niche, and there will be individuals who don’t. And no matter what you do, you won’t be able to make the entire market like you.
This is entirely natural, and there’s no need to justify yourself.
The only thing you can do is to remain authentic, improve and provide value every day, and know that the growing number of “haters” means that you are doing important things.
3. Give up the need to control everything
“Some things are up to us, and some things are not up to us.” — Epictetus, Stoic philosopher
Differentiating these two is important.
Detach from the things you cannot control, and focus on the ones you can, and know that sometimes, the only thing you will be able to control is your attitude towards something.
Remember, nobody can be frustrated while saying “Bubbles” in an angry voice.
4. If you want to be successful, get rid of the idea that you have to be perfect.
Perfectionism screws you up big time even without you realizing it. I know you’re thinking that only perfectionists get far in life, but that’s actually not true. And the explanation is very simple: perfectionism puts an extraordinary amount of pressure on you which in turn makes you procrastinate. And if you want to be successful you shouldn’t.
You feel overwhelmed by the unrealistic objectives you’ve set for yourself and you’re disappointed even before you start. I know you think you did pretty good due to your perfectionism, but just imagine how far you would’ve gone if you hadn’t put so much pressure on yourself. Wanting to be successful also means you should be able to move on some times.
5. Give up believing in overnight success
You are worth it and you are good enough.
Make peace with yourself and make the best out of what you’ve got. You will be surprised to see how much you can achieve when you start from the premise that you are enough already. You have everything it takes to succeed and if you pay attention to your real calls, the road to greatness is halfway paved. Keep your eye on the opportunities that lie ahead and your mind clear and wonderful things will be revealed to you.
6. Give up playing small
“Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people will not feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. It is not just in some of us; it is in everyone, and as we let our light shine, we unconsciously give others permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our fear, our presence automatically liberates others.” – Marianne Williamson
If you never try and take great opportunities, or allow your dreams to become realities, you will never unleash your true potential.
And the world will never benefit from what you could have achieved.
So voice your ideas, don’t be afraid to fail, and certainly don’t be afraid to succeed.
7. Give up the Unhealthy lifestyle!
Yes, you should live a healthy and active life. But this is not enough. You must give up some things as well to make room for the people and activities that will truly help you become your best version of yourself.
And make it your mission to give up on these 7 bad habits!
To your success!
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